Sunday, July 27, 2014
Short Hair Rules!
So this leads to an interesting discussion I had with someone a couple of weeks ago. Actually, it wasn't really a discussion. It was him telling me his opinion even though I didn't ask for it.
This person (who shall remain nameless) commented to me that my hair was getting long and that it looked really good. I think that was a compliment, right? So I thanked him and said that I was going to get it cut soon, not going into details of what kind of cut or how short etc. And he practically jumped down my throat. "Why would you want to ruin the only thing you have going for you"? He then proceeded to tell me that men don't like short hair and that he sees so many women who ruin their looks by cutting their hair short. I swear, I didn't know if I should have laughed...or cried. And umm...does he know what all men like?
I have long hair (little longer than mid-back length) and it's kind of thick. I say "kind of" because I started losing my hair in 2008. I have no idea why but then it suddenly stopped falling out. It tends to do this when I 'm stressed out which is basically all the time! People tell me they can't tell that my hair looks thinner-I hope so. But I definitely know it's about 50% less thick then it used to be.
So I will ignore what this person says and get my hair cut shoulder length (maybe even shorter-gasp!) and get me some highlights. I'm thinking of some deep reds but who knows. (and if you're wondering why I didn't tell this person off, it's because you can't get into disagreements with him. Because even if you're right, you won't win and will most likely end up in tears).
hair: sYs, lio @ Hair Fair
dress: Fishy Strawberry (yay!), carthage dress @ FaMESHed
pose: EverGlow (remember, there is sale going on!!!)
skin: Glam Affair, Lilith-arctic
place: The Trace (great place to take photos)